How to attract and acomplish chics

How to master the art of influencing a girl. You see her from across a crowded room. She is a thing of beauty. Will she give you the time of day, amuse you, or ignore your existance? Being a guy, you're used to rejection, but one of out ten women show an interest so you go for it. Written from a womens perspective here are some things for you men to keep in mind.

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1. Ever hear the saying different strokes for different folks? Applied to trying to influence chics means that there is not a single approach that will work for everyone. Some women like a man in jeans, a cowboy hat, and a truck. Other women will like a fine dressed man with the BMW to match. Still other women will like a totally different combination of things. Most women want to be treated with respect upfront. Sadly, others will take less then kind treatment. If you are wanting to master the art of influencing women beef up your instincts, get to know how you feel deep down inside and you will know what to say and do.

2. Be calm and show self-confidence. Nothing attracts most women more to men than a lot of confidence. Why, you ask? Well, it's a form of security and protection. We live in a modern world, but some women still like to feel that their guy will defend them with confidence, instead of running like a coward (a lack of confidence) if the situation presents itself. Also, men with a lot of confidence are less likely to become abusive, and more likely to be able to help out financially.

3. Have positive energy. Treat yourself with respect, thus you will treat others the same. Deep down nobody wants to be treated with disrespect, it emitts a lot of negative energy. Learn how to treat yourself with the upmost of respect, and you will automatically treat others the same way; thus raise your positive energy level. This alone will attract and influence a lot of different women. But, how you ask? It requires getting in touch with your feelings and learning how to heal any hurt and anger you have. How do you get in touch with your feelings and heal? You can use western psychology, eastern philosophy, certain meditation techniques, and other paths. What ever path you choose, keep in mind the outcome/rewards are worth it.

4. Don't play games. Saying what you thinks she wants to hear just so you can have your way is a great formula for a one night stand. If that is what you are after knock yourself out. If you are out for something more long term say what you really think and feel about any topic you talk about (though sometimes discretion is a good thing). Doing this is the best way to find a good match, because you truely get to know each other at that time in your lives. Otherwise, as the differences come out in the future the relationship will begin to fall apart because it was built upon a false foundation. This requires both parties to participate, not as easy as writing this paragraph about it.

5. People change. Be open to the one constant in live, change. People change with time, life experiences, and aging. The person you are seeking now will be somehow different 10 years from now in looks and thought. A lot of women (men too) will somehow appreciate the feeling that you are open to change, it is very attractive. There will be something refreshing about you. How do you become so open to change? Do number three above, get in deep touch with your feelings and learn how to heal. What will be left is a lot of positive, open energy. Nothing is more attractive and influencial to women then a man who emitts a lot of positive, open energy. The pick of the litter, per say, will be yours.

In short, the best way to influence most women (some women are just gold diggers and wouldn't know true love if it bit them in the butt) is to be who you are deep down inside your heart and learning to understand how she (each individual women) feels. The outcome will be wonderfully surprising.